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Monete and I had been friends for years. Now our friendship had shattered and lay in pieces at my feet. Monete was directing a drama for our youth group, and as the weeks went by, I grew concerned about some of her methods/ Unfortunately, instead of sharing this with her. I told someone else . She told Monet, I could understand why Monete was angry, I was heartbroken and wondered if our friendship could survive.
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you know , you are friends, isn't it?. then why you did not tell her of the real feelings you have about her methods of directing? Your friend might understand you if you told her straight to the point but in a constructive attitude. There's a saying, "best friend would become best enemy".So be careful!
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Forgive and forget, is the best solution in your case , nothing can paralyze a friendship like a hurt that's not forgotten.
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Recognize the need to forgive. According to Dr, Archibald Hart, "those who can't forgive and who harbor resentments are likely to be those who carry the greatest stress."
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the alternative to forgiveness is revenge, having a videotape planted in your soul that cannot be turned off, it plays the painful. scene over and over again inside your mind.
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Yes., it hooks you into its instant replays. And each time it replays, you feel the clap of pain again."
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Acknowledge an inability to forgive.,, most offenses are minor and can seem to to be shrugged off fairly easily.but eventually a big one comes.
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